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♥ 38 Notes / Nov 13th at 12PM
nativewildheart:
Okay, advice. How does someone find who they are? I feel like I'm having an identity crisis. I came to the conclusion, I'm bi. But I'm tall and everyone around me makes me feel like I have to be masculine, and I like the attention, but I'm not comfortable. I don't know :| I'm extremely lost. I'm technically not "sexually' attracted to anyone, I just admire people a lot. Idk if something is wrong with me or what !?

I use to be the same way, I think we all start out that way. I found msyself when I meant my bestfriend. She was so white and I was so hood lol, but we reflected off one another. We started to dress different together and most of all, before everyone started chopping their locks off, we cutt our hair. It’s almost as if neither of us knew who we were, but being together, we found who we really are. Some people aren’t as lucky as me, having a friend sshow you who you really are. But I can tell you how it feels to be YOURSELF. You aren’t afraid to put something odd or “out of style” on. People are so cautious about what they wear. There are very few people who like pink hair so actually DYE their hair pink. You shouldn’t think twice about how you feel about something, if you like it, you like it, fuck what others think. And thats most important, fuck what others think. It will make a million of you to make everyone happy, but only one of you trying to be a million will distance you from who you really are. Also, don’t see somebody wearing something, or having a certain hairstyle and saying “I want that”, if so, that means you are taking a peice of that persson and sticking it to yourself. Don’t misread me, you can get something someone else has, but get it because you we’re laying down watching tv and thought “I want to get my nose pierced” , not because someone sold the idea to you. Another great idea is to sorround yourself with people like you, you wonder, how do you do that? Don’t lie to yourself. If you don’t like someone or don’t vibe with someone, don’t fuck with them. It’s pointless keeping people around who you think twice about. The energy you give off will find it’s way back to you, and if you stay true to yourself and your opinion, you will eventually sorround yourself with supportive people who relate to you. Lastly, don’t shop with a trend. And I say that meaning, don’t live in forever 21, I like shopping in thrift stores and good will, know I don’t get all my clothes from there, but when your into fashion and retro clothes, perfect way to find clothes that the rest of the school isn’t wearing. Don’t just shop where everyone else does, venture, find your own style, put together your own outfits. I could go on forever, but I think that sums up your question. As for your sexuality, it’ll all come too, don’t rush things, when your attracted to thsat guy or girl, you’ll know. Not being attracted to jsust anyone doesn’t make you wierd, just superior to most americans lol. Sorry so long

xoxoxLouie

Posted: Sun November 13th, 2011 at 12:51pm
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